There is a chief in my fire department that's been married just a couple of years. They recently bought a new car, which I was admiring the other day. He said something along the lines of, "well, I had to have a beautiful car for my beautiful lady." Sitting here, that doesn't seem like the best example... but I hope it gets my point across. Here's is a guy that's married and smitten. So many times, it seems like you can't do both. And I want do to both, dammit.